Jade Arrington

My name is Matthew and I would like to nominate my wife Jade Arrington. I know it seems weird that a man would be on your blog but I noticed my wife liked you on Facebook so I clicked on it out of curiosity and stumbled upon this contest. I wouldn’t know where to begin when it comes to why my wife deserves this but I will do my best; I owe her that much. In September of 2010 we found out through ultra sound that our third baby, a boy, was diagnosed with a rare chromosome condition called Trisomy 18. This rare genetic disorder effects every organ especially the heart. The complications are endless and as a result, our precious baby boy named Locke William born January 25, 2011 only lived a few precious minutes. He was full term and weighed a whopping 4 pounds 10 ounces. He was perfect and precious and so special.

Because we found out early on in the pregnancy of his condition we had several months to prepare and try to wrap our heads around saying goodbye to our baby. Through it all Jade was amazing. We have a five year old daughter named Laken and a two year old son named Track. They are her pure joy and the reason she could get out of bed in the morning. I watched her night after night cry herself to sleep and then wake up in the morning and rally for her children. They are her everything. Her faith is so inspiring. Although our hearts were broken she knew that Locke was too special for this earth and she cleaved to that knowledge everyday.

When Locke was born we we’re in awe. His tiny spirit radiated in the room. He had shown complications during labor and although the doctors advised her not to have a c-section because the outcome was the same no matter what, we needed to meet him, just for a moment. So Jade made the decision to have a cesarean. She said after that she needed to know in her heart that even though she couldn’t fix him, she did everything in her power to give him life. She needed him to know how much she loved him and how grateful she was that he was part of our family.

I have watched in awe this last year at the strength of my wife and it killed me that there was nothing I could do to ease her ache. We made a good team and relied on each other, but that pain was still there. Jade was determined to find something else besides bitterness through this experience. She opened her heart and she let others in. We have a family blog where she wrote her thoughts and feelings throughout the pregnancy and after. It has been overwhelming the number of people, a lot of which are strangers, that have found strength through her blog. Countless stories of ways she has given people a reason to do better and be better. She turned a tragedy that could have ruined her and her family forever into something that brought strength and hope to everyone around her. She says it’s what Locke would have wanted. That says a lot about the women she is. I am so honored to call her my wife. Thanks so much for considering Jade for your contest.

283 Responses to Jade Arrington

  1. Brinlee says:

    Wow! Vote.
    Lots of amazing women. Cara you’re one too for doing this.

    • sally wardle says:

      Vote for Jade. I have been the baby nurse when a fragile spirit meets his Parents…only to pitter patter footprints on their hearts and leave as quickly…..

  2. Kara says:

    VOTE! Wow. Amazing.

  3. Carson says:

    VOTE! I voted twice… I am so sorry… But I too am so inspired by these women and am excited for them to get a day to themselves!

  4. Shelly says:

    my vote.

  5. randi says:

    ….sounds like an amazing woman…and husband!

  6. Monica says:

    All the women are amazing that you have chosen. But, I would have to vote for Jade! This story breaks my heart as a mother I can’t even imagine going through all of that when you are expecting to add a new little baby to your home and all you get is a couple brief moments. She sounds like an amazing women and well deserving of this day to herself.

  7. Tatum says:

    This is my sister and she deserves the VOTE!

  8. Beth says:

    Vote! She is amazing!!!

  9. Hannah says:

    VOTE VOTE VOTE!!!

  10. will says:

    i hope you win… you really need it.

  11. Emily says:

    If anyone should win, it’s you. You are so strong. Love you so much!

  12. Hailey Bridge says:

    JADE! HANDS DOWN!

  13. Hailey says:

    HANDS DOWN JADE!

  14. Matthew Arrington says:

    VOTE. Love you hun. Hope you win; you deserve it!!

  15. leah says:

    vote….

  16. Brittany says:

    You’ve got my vote! Keep your chin up, sweetie, you’ll see him again. Remember, families are forever.

  17. Brad Parrill says:

    She’s got my vote! Jade is an amazing gal!

  18. chloe says:

    jade for sure

  19. leah says:

    vote jade

  20. meg says:

    vote!!!!!

  21. Deanna says:

    Jade is my granddaughter and she is an amazing lady and she has really earned an opportunity like this after all she has been through. I watched her through this journey and she never gave up hope and wanted nothing more than to have her baby be born alive. We love you Jade.

  22. Heather says:

    vote

  23. Nataile says:

    Vote

  24. Spring says:

    vote!

  25. Lexie says:

    VOTE VOTE VOTE!!

  26. Angie Lingo says:

    Here is my vote!!!!!

  27. Elliott says:

    Voting for Jade.

  28. Sarah says:

    love this girl – vote!

  29. Nicole says:

    VOTE!!!

  30. Carrie says:

    I vote for Jade! She is amazing and so inspiring and definitely deserves this.

  31. Holly Winget says:

    Jade I vote for you a million times over! I hope to tell you one day how much you have inspired me. I love you!! Matt You Rock too!!

  32. Stephanie says:

    I vote for Jade

  33. Jacklyn says:

    Jade does anything for anyone but hates for one person to do anything for her, she deserves it. VOTE

  34. Nicolle says:

    VOTE!!!

  35. Brie says:

    VOTE FOR JADE!!!!!

  36. Hilary says:

    Vote!

  37. Amanda says:

    Jade is the most SELFLESS person in this entire world, if anybody deserves this day to be pampered it is JADE ARRINGTON!!! She is the most amazing, inspiring, loving, strong, dedicated, honest, HILARIOUS, one of a kind person I have and will ever meet in my life. I am so grateful to know her. Love you Jade!! If I could sit here and VOTE as many times as I wanted…I would spend my entire day in front of this computer so that my dear friend JADE would be guaranteed to win, because trust me people she DESERVES it!!!

  38. Kayson says:

    She has my VOTE!!

  39. Talise says:

    Go Laken’s mommy!! I hope you kick their butts with my VOTE!!!

  40. Kamberly says:

    She DEFINATELY has my vote!!!

  41. Amanda says:

    Jade is the most SELFLESS person in this whole entire world if anyone deserves a day to pamper themself, it would be JADE ARRINGTON!!! Jade is the most loving, kind, caring, dedicated, strong, humble, fun, inspiring, HILARIOUS person I have and will ever meet in my life. I am so grateful to know her. If I could just sit here and VOTE over and over and it would guarantee Jade would win this competition, I would sit in front of this computer all day long.. that is how much I think Jade should win. If anyone deserves this, TRUST me people…it is JADE!!! Love ya girl!

  42. kelsey says:

    vote, vote, vote.

  43. Dave Worthington says:

    Team Jade!

  44. Suzanne says:

    VOTE!

  45. Whitney says:

    Vote!

  46. Shealeigh says:

    VOOOTTTEE!!!!

  47. Whitney Yardley says:

    VOTE! We love Jade!!

  48. Vanessa says:

    Vote

  49. Susie says:

    VOTE! sooo can’t wait to see this girl all done up!!

  50. Erin says:

    You are an amazing person Jade! VOTE!

  51. Brittney Singer says:

    Vote. Jade’s amazing… she definitely deserves this!

  52. Jennifer says:

    VOTE

  53. Kristin says:

    My VOTE is for Jade. Love her!

  54. Kensey Sharp says:

    Vote. Vote. Vote.

  55. Madison Worthington says:

    Jade You are one hot Momma!!

  56. Ian Worthington says:

    Jade I could stare at your long blonde hair all day long!!

  57. Sarah says:

    VOTE!!!!! We love you Jade!

  58. brooke says:

    if anyone deserves this it is jade!!! she is an amaizing mother!!! vote vote vote!

  59. Charlotte says:

    Vote!
    Jade is an amazing person, she deserves to win and she’s absolutely beautiful.

  60. Camille says:

    Vote!!!

  61. Teagan says:

    VOTE!!!

  62. chelsey funk says:

    VOTE!!!

  63. Genel says:

    VOTE. She deserves a day to be pampered

  64. Genel says:

    VOTE she deserves a day to be pampered

  65. Jealin says:

    Vote. This women is amazing. I know that first hand!

  66. Tiffany says:

    VOTE!!!

  67. Beth says:

    VOTE! No one needs this more! Good luck!

  68. Kellie Stilson says:

    VOTE!!!! She really is amazing!!

  69. Michelle says:

    Vote

  70. Valynne says:

    Vote

  71. Natalie says:

    Vote

  72. Stefanee says:

    Vote

  73. Andrea says:

    This is one momma that definately deserves it! VOTE!!!

  74. Kristen says:

    Beautiful Jade gets my VOTE!!!

  75. Aubrey says:

    Enjoy being pampered beautiful girl!! VOTE!!!!

  76. Amy norton says:

    Vote!

  77. Kristy says:

    Happy Mother’s Day Jade!! Vote!

  78. Christee says:

    vote

  79. Boyd says:

    She deserves to be pampered! Vote for JADE!!

  80. Anne says:

    Wow this woman definately gets my VOTE!!!

  81. Dan says:

    vote vote vote vote vote

  82. Tawni says:

    Definately JADE—vote!!!

  83. Crystal says:

    Vote

  84. Lainee says:

    VOTE VOTE and VOTE
    this momma really is one of the most amazing persons I know

  85. Sharma says:

    She gets my VOTE!

  86. Tracy says:

    Jade is so amazing, she deserves this the most! VOTE!

  87. Sherrie says:

    This is one HOT MAMA that deserves to be Pampered–vote JADE!

  88. Chelsey says:

    I vote Jade for sure! What an amazing story.

  89. Stephen says:

    VOTE

  90. Susan says:

    Jade is one of a kind…she deserves this day! VOTE

  91. Kirsten says:

    You are so inspirational and beautiful! vote vote vote

  92. Amanda C says:

    TEAM JADE! vote

  93. Brandy says:

    What a story….vote!

  94. Deidra says:

    Love you Jade! VOTE!!!

  95. Janell says:

    GO JADE…take this competition down!! Vote for Jade!

  96. Kristi says:

    Vote for Jade!

  97. Lesley says:

    Go Jade—my vote for sure!!

  98. Liz says:

    Jade you are AMAZING! Vote

  99. Donna says:

    You are amazing and beautiful! Jade!!

  100. Reta says:

    Jade is the most amazing person I have ever met! Such a great mommy. VOTE

  101. Talia says:

    You have changed many many lives Jade! Love ya girl!! VOTE FOR JADE!

  102. Hilary says:

    Vote! Jade HAS to win!!!

  103. Kassidi Bridge says:

    my VOTE is for Jade!

  104. amber says:

    vote! she is so strong and an amazing mother

  105. Brandon says:

    Vote!

  106. natalie says:

    vote!

  107. natalie b says:

    my vote!

  108. Draza says:

    My Vote

  109. Mindy says:

    My votes definitely for Jade!

  110. julia says:

    vote!!!

  111. Sarah says:

    Vote! Vote! Vote!

  112. Melanie says:

    Jade deserves this vote and so much more for the incredible strength she has shown through all that she has gone through as of late.

  113. Christal says:

    Jade deserves this more than anyone I know right she has done more for people then she knows through her love example and what she has been through! She is amazing! So here’s my vote!

  114. Crystal says:

    She gets my vote!

  115. Amy T says:

    Wow what a incredible story and incredible woman–VOTE

  116. Amy H says:

    You go girl–VOTE

  117. Angie says:

    Love ya Jadey Lou–vote

  118. Sophie says:

    VOTE!!!

  119. Claudia says:

    VOTE !!!

  120. Angie K says:

    vote

  121. erin says:

    vote. definitely.

  122. Brandon says:

    vote

  123. Shelly says:

    Vote vote vote!! Jade you’re amazing and you deserve this!!

  124. Britney says:

    vote

  125. Bryan says:

    GO JADE-VOTE

  126. Christy says:

    TEAM JADE-VOTE

  127. Christina says:

    Vote for Pedro, I mean JADE!

  128. Clareen says:

    My VOTE is with Jade

  129. Laura Anne says:

    Vote

  130. Dannelle says:

    Go girl—VOTE

  131. Deanna says:

    Go Jade Go–vote

  132. Mary Leger says:

    Vote

  133. Dolores says:

    Vote

  134. Annalise says:

    VOTE

  135. Heather says:

    Knock em dead JADE-vote

  136. Haylee says:

    VOTE VOTE and triple VOTE

  137. Jenny says:

    I don’t think it is possible to make Jade more beautiful than she already is, but I will VOTE anyways!

  138. Jazzmin says:

    If only this world had a few more Jade Arrington’s in it….VOTE

  139. Mary Jo says:

    VOTE

  140. Jennifer says:

    I hope you win girl! VOTE

  141. Jennifer L says:

    You deserve this! VOTE

  142. Elise says:

    VOTE FOR JADE

  143. Amber J says:

    Vote

  144. Justina says:

    Definitely vote

  145. Danielle says:

    Vote

  146. Michelle says:

    vote!

  147. Robin says:

    Vote!!! I’m not surprised. Jade has an amazing mom and family too!!!

  148. Kelci says:

    Amazing. VOTE

  149. Shelli says:

    VOTE 4 JADE

  150. Ramsey says:

    Jade is such a dear friend of mine, I would just love it if you got her out of her red “Power suit” and she got a makeover. My vote is for jade

  151. Jessica says:

    vote

  152. Kirstee says:

    VOTE

  153. Kylee says:

    Someone as fun and beautiful as Jade deserves to be pampered! VOTE

  154. Britanee says:

    VOTE

  155. Kyle says:

    GO for it JADE-vote

  156. Kambree says:

    Oh my beautiful Jade gets my vote!

  157. Lindsay says:

    VOTE

  158. Laura says:

    Such a beautiful person such as Jade deserves a day to be pampered! VOTE

  159. Autumn says:

    You are definitely popular, but anyone that knows you knows why…you are AMAZING!! Count my VOTE at least 10 times.

  160. Lyndsi says:

    VOTE FOR JADE

  161. Malinda says:

    My vote is for Jade

  162. Candice says:

    Is it possible to “make over” perfection?!! But I will cast my vote anyway.

  163. Melanie says:

    I vote for Jade hands down!

  164. Jessica says:

    Jade is more beautiful on the inside then she is on the outside…who know that was even possible? VOTE 4 Jade

  165. Linsey says:

    No one is more deserving

  166. Ashley says:

    Love you Jade!! Good Luck!!

  167. Brittany says:

    You are such a deserving little mom and such a great example to me and my family!!

  168. Summer says:

    My vote is for you Jade!!

  169. Marilyn says:

    Good Luck you are such a great little mom!!

  170. JD says:

    I vote for you Jade!! Hope you get a little pampering…you deserve it!

  171. Dave says:

    My vote is for Jade!! Good luck!

  172. kathryn says:

    vote!

  173. Mary-Rose McMullin says:

    YES for JADE!!!

  174. Sam Steckler says:

    Vote

  175. Lydia says:

    Clearly you do not need my vote, Jade, but I’m sending it your way anyway!

    VOTE!

    Thank you for your strength! Truly inspiring.

  176. Jennie Holt says:

    VOTE! Jade you are amazing! and you deserve it!

  177. cass miller says:

    What a sweet description and what an amazing woman! I can’t imagine ever going through that and being able to survive it at all, let alone with such grace. Amazing! She obviously HAS to win.
    VOTE.

  178. Kaylee says:

    VOTE!!!! Hope you win this, you deserve it even tho you don’t need a makeover…;) good job matt!

  179. Sara says:

    Team Jade!

  180. Sara says:

    Team Jade!!!

  181. Jean Marcel says:

    vote

  182. Wendy Winget says:

    I Vote Jade! Your little family inspired us here in PA!

  183. Sharae Hildebrandt says:

    I vote for Jade! She is so inspiring!

  184. Sue says:

    VOTE!!! she definitely deserves this!

  185. Melanie says:

    VOTE!

  186. Danielle says:

    VOTE!

  187. Corinne says:

    I am so lucky to have Jade as my daughter in-law. I can’t say in words the joy she continues to bring to our family! She has an amazing way of bringing all of us together. I vote for her with all my heart!

  188. Suzanne says:

    VOTE – she could use this I am sure

  189. Suzanne says:

    vote

  190. Ashley says:

    Vote!

  191. Janae says:

    VOTE!

  192. Shanna says:

    Jade gets my vote! Very deserving!

  193. LindsayB says:

    vote!

  194. Jocelyn says:

    VOTE! I hope she wins!!!

  195. Julie says:

    Matt, you are such a thoughtful husband. Jade, you are most deserving. I hope you enjoy your day of pampering…cuz it looks like you have this contest in the bag!! Love you!

  196. Charlee says:

    Go Jade’s Mom, Go!

  197. Cooper says:

    The tall blonde better win!

  198. Griffin says:

    My vote is for the Blonde Bombshell

  199. Dianne says:

    Vote for Jade because she really is an amazing mom. Her strength has amazed us all! Good Luck

  200. Alohanani says:

    Vote for Jade she is the SEXIEST mom around and totally deserves.

  201. Ella says:

    Vote!!!